Comments on: The First Born. http://the818.com/2009/08/the-first-born/ "Can you describe the ruckus?" Tue, 22 May 2012 03:16:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: sara http://the818.com/2009/08/the-first-born/#comment-895 sara Mon, 10 Aug 2009 19:26:37 +0000 http://the818.com/?p=2791#comment-895 ok so we must still be brain-connected on some bizarre hlp level because just yesterday i was asking my friend how it was possible to love your second kid as much as your first. because this scares me. you know what she said though? that you do. you don't love them the same. you love them very, very differently. but you love them equally. and that she couldn't imagine it before either until she had #2, and that its just something too ethereal to explain or understand until you're there, but when you are it just is so overwhelming that your brain might explode. which i can imagine, because the love i feel for my baby x2? that is liable to kill me. ok so we must still be brain-connected on some bizarre hlp level because just yesterday i was asking my friend how it was possible to love your second kid as much as your first. because this scares me.

you know what she said though? that you do. you don’t love them the same. you love them very, very differently. but you love them equally. and that she couldn’t imagine it before either until she had #2, and that its just something too ethereal to explain or understand until you’re there, but when you are it just is so overwhelming that your brain might explode.

which i can imagine, because the love i feel for my baby x2? that is liable to kill me.

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